RE: My mom's apartment is really bad for the cat...need some help. page 3This is a discussion thread · 114 replies Mary: [nq:2]Mom smokes a pack a day, all in a small ... the place for an hour, I can'timagine being inthat 24/7.[/nq][nq:1]Well, my cats were fine for the many years I had a pack and a half aday habit in a ... hey,anything's possible. I just quit. I'm dying for one every effing day, but Iquit. I'm also a bit grouchy. LOL[/nq]Good for you. Stick with it, and in three months you will not believe you ever smoked. I quit a few years ago. Nicoderm CQ might help you it did me. Also, drink things through straws. Sounds funny, but trust me. This is the same cat who entered my life biting me to the bone right after I fed her. Yes, the one I smacked when she bit me. The one with all her teeth when she died, who ate dry Science Diet alone for her last 15 years. I also lived in a one-bedroom apartment. I don't advocate smoking, but I do think many cats and people manage to survive it. [nq:1]Perhaps the cat is allergic. I know some people are. Or, the environment, in total, is depressing. Cats are sensitivebeings. She may be reacting to more than just smoke.[/nq] They are emotional creatures, attuned to their owners, esp. when they live alone with them. My old girl was all over me when I cried, and let me hold her in my arms all night the night my father died. (is that really her name?!) may be reflecting his mother's feelings. [nq:1]I cracked mine every day.[/nq] Me too. Plenty of addicts don't like the stinkiness of smoke. [nq:1]I don't think non-smokers will ever know how difficult stopping is.It's a drug. An addiction. You don't want to stop. ... people simplycan't handle that. And yes, I am still on the patch. It is both a physical and mental addiction.[/nq]Ah. Disregard the above about the patch, then. I was successful on the third try, and I changed most of my habits at the same time because smoking was paired with most of them. For the first week I stayed out of my office, the only place I smoked in this house. I switched from white wine to red when I went out to dinner, because the mere taste of white made me crave a cigarette. Strangely, coffee seemed to help. I think because it is something warm that one consumes, I don't know. I also rewarded myself with anything I wanted except a cigarette. Plan to gain weight most do. If you try to do both you will fail. You can lose the weight later. Eventually, I gave myself non-edible rewards spent the money I would have on cigarettes on eBay! Good luck to you. It is among the very hardest things I have ever done. I love being a non-smoker, though I do miss my cigs. What makes it worth is, aside from the health benefits: never again having to have a nicotine fit.
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Mary: [nq:1]My sister smokes and I have come to believe that you either kick thehabit or you don't. There is no try.[/nq]Sigh
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MGW: [nq:1]Ah. Disregard the above about the patch, then. I was successful on the third try, and I changed most of ... a cigarette. Strangely, coffee seemed to help. I think because it is something warm that one consumes, I don't know.[/nq]I think it's because caffeine provides some of the same effects on the brain as nicotine. Both help with attention and focus. If it weren't for its negative effects on the cardiovascular system, nicotine would actually be a very useful psychoactive medication - and there are companies working to try to find ways to counteract the negative side effects. Many people with ADHD or psychiatric problems end up smoking because the nicotine is actually quite helpful for them.
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Mary: [nq:1]I think it's because caffeine provides some of the same effects onthe brain as nicotine. Both help with attention and focus.[/nq]Hmm, this makes perfect sense! I have one large cup in the morning (probably what most folks consider two) and feel good all day. Butmore than that makes me feel wired and depleted. I read once that caffeine, like cocaine, stimulates the release of certain brain chemicals (NE?) that increase alertness, but too much actually depletes the stores and you crash. Coffee is one of the few things I consistently do in moderation. :-)
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kaeli: [nq:1]I think it's because caffeine provides some of the same effects on the brain as nicotine. Both help with attention and focus.[/nq]Then I must be the most attentive and focused person ever. I only drink Diet Pepsi. From the time I wake up until the time I go to bed. ~kaeli~ Why did kamikaze pilots wear helmets? http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace
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kaeli: Oh, we've all tried many times.Mom and Dad quit for two years, then started again. Gramma quit for 20 years then started again. We're all addicts. heh This time, though, between the allergies and the asthma, I don't have a choice. If I'd like to breathe in the morning, I have to quit. It's not about want for me - it's about need. [nq:1]I quit a few years ago. Nicoderm CQ might help you it did me.[/nq] On it. [nq:1]Also, drink things through straws.[/nq] Tried it. Made me want a cigarette. LOL [nq:1]I also lived in a one-bedroom apartment. I don't advocate smoking, but I do think many cats and people manage to survive it.[/nq] They did for a long time before the anti-smoking brigade came in. IMO, second hand smoke is no more dangerous than the hundreds of other things out there that might possibly cause cancer. Now they're saying bad things about deodorant, FCOL. Heck, more people are dying from obesity these days than cigs, yet the latest article I read said the rates for smokers have been nearly constanst over the last 40 years (so you can't say it's because there are less smokers). I will never be one of those anti-smoking people. I can't smoke, but I'll never tell someone else they shouldn't. Besides, anyone can make statistics say anything they want. Who the heck knows the truth? Not one article is objective - either the cig companies funded it or the anti-smokers did. hehehe [nq:1]Ah. Disregard the above about the patch, then. I was successful on the third try,[/nq] Hey, this is my third! Now I know* it's a charm. *g [nq:1]and I changed most of my habits at the same time because smoking was paired with most of them.[/nq] Smoking was paired with everything for me, from eating to being on the computer to playing video games, so it's pretty rough to find something else to do. I've been reading a lot. Everything else reminds me of smoking. Geez, that's kinda sad, isn't it? sigh All my friends still smoke, too. On the good side, I got Mom and Dad to try again. ~kaeli~ Do cemetery workers prefer the graveyard shift? http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace
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kaeli: [nq:1]My sister smokes and I have come to believe that you either kick the habit or you don't. There is no try. I think you need to get the cat out of this situation and keep her at your place.[/nq]You don't even take the neighborhood cats off the street. This one has a home, though not the best. How about some more useful suggestions like the filter? And if you have never smoked, don't even try to tell other people to quit. You have no clue what it's like. Nor do you want to. Non-smokers telling smokers to quit is like non-heroin users telling heroin users that they can just quit (or alcoholics, etc). It makes us shake our heads and ignore you; it certainly doesn't make us want to quit. /recovering smoker ~kaeli~ Those who jump off a bridge in Paris... are in Seine. http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace
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Cat Protector: Uhh. the hell I don't. I rescued Jade last year and she was an abandoned kitty. Let's not forget Ali who was an abuse case and now has a good and loving home. I later adopted her. Of course like some others you'd rather blast me then help a cat. The OP is doing nothing to help this cat and has made several excuses for keeping this feline in an uncomfortable situation to breath the air of second hand smoke.By your answer I can tell you are an advocate of smoking. I suppose you agree with all those other smokers who have no problem killing someone else by there habit. Those who support smoking are usually ones who do it themselves without regard for the lives around them. It's a filthy habit. If you just have to smoke then why not outside? Of course you smokers will always have an excuse why not to do that either. Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of All Your Computer Needs! www.members.cox.net/catprotector/panthertek Cat Galaxy: All Cats, All The Time! www.catgalaxymedia.com
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Judy F: If you go to www.allergycontrol.com you can find all kinds of air cleaners with hepa filters. I've gotten them for my cat allergies and they really get all the fur out of the air. They say they work on cigarette smoke too! Judy F
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