I know many of you don't know me well if at all, but I would like to ask a collective favor. Eric Emotion: football had to send his 21 yr old kitty to the bridge last night. He is a very stoic man, but he openly cried I know he is hurting a lot. It was very peaceful and quick. He had a very hard time leaving her at the clinic. Please think of him, and send him healing thoughts. I know it will take him a long time to recover, but any help easing his pain would be much appreciated.

-Abby
Pems, Aussie, and a Pug
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I know many of you don't know me well if at all, but I would like to ask a collective ... any help easing his pain would be much appreciated. -Abby Pems, Aussie, and a Pug *Remove shoes to reply*

Awe Abby that makes me cry too. A 21 one year old cat is so much a part of a persons life! I know your SO must be in lots of pain.
I am sending him healing vibs. I know it is going to take him a long time to get over this. Have you thought of obtaining a "Memorial tree" in honor of the kitty? It really helps and it does make it seem as life is going on in a different form.
Gwen
I am sending him healing vibs. I know it is going to take him a long time to get over ... the kitty? It really helps and it does make it seem as life is going on in a different form.

No, we haven't. What is it? What we did do is take imprints of her paws on a piece of clay and baked it. He also has imprints in another material that he mounted with her photo (part of a kit).

-Abby
Pems, Aussie, and a Pug
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I am sending him healing vibs. I know it is ... seem as life is going on in a different form.

No, we haven't. What is it?

Any kind of tree you like. Blooming in a way is better. It makes it very special in the spring. But that of course is a special choice. We planted a Texas Redbud tree in honor of Murphy at his gravesite. I sure hope it blooms next year.
What we did do is take imprints of her paws on a piece of clay and baked it. He also ... he mounted with her photo (part of a kit). -Abby Pems, Aussie, and a Pug *Remove shoes to reply*

That sounds very good. I wish I could send your SO a card but then he doesn't know me at all. Just let him know that people are thinking about him and feel his pain.

Gwen
I know many of you don't know me well if at all, but I would like to ask a collective ... any help easing his pain would be much appreciated. -Abby Pems, Aussie, and a Pug *Remove shoes to reply*

- I am sorry for his loss. It is so sad when the time comes and very difficult to get through. I hope that soon he will be able to think about his cat with a smile and not tears.
Lone
Any kind of tree you like. Blooming in a way is better. It makes it very special in the spring. ... We planted a Texas Redbud tree in honor of Murphy at his gravesite. I sure hope it blooms next year.

Oh, how nice! Neither of us is very green-thumbed. We have an extremely small property, too, so I'm not sure where we'd plant anything. I will offer him the idea, though. (It'd have to wait til the spring, I think, as the soil is hard frozen.)
That sounds very good. I wish I could send your SO a card but then he doesn't know me at all. Just let him know that people are thinking about him and feel his pain.

Thanks, Gwen, that's so sweet of you. I will let him know.

-Abby
Pems, Aussie, and a Pug
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Any kind of tree you like. Blooming in a way ... at his gravesite. I sure hope it blooms next year.

Oh, how nice! Neither of us is very green-thumbed. We have an extremely small property, too, so I'm not sure ... offer him the idea, though. (It'd have to wait til the spring, I think, as the soil is hard frozen.)

I bet there are trees in your area that don't get that large. What about apple or cherry tree? You really don't need much of a green thumb if you obtain a tree that does well in your area. Best place to go is a nursery that specializes in plants that do well in your area and will only sell those kind of trees and plants.
That sounds very good. I wish I could send your ... that people are thinking about him and feel his pain.

Thanks, Gwen, that's so sweet of you. I will let him know. -Abby Pems, Aussie, and a Pug *Remove shoes to reply*

I really do know how much he is hurting right now. He must have been so young when he obtained his kitty.
I am so sorry for his loss.
Gwen
I'm sorry for you and your SOs loss. It's got to be so hard after having the cat be a part of his life for 21 years. Hopefully, he will soon be able to look back at his time with the cat and smile about how much joy the cat brought.
Paul
I know many of you don't know me well if at all, but I would like to ask a collective ... know it will take him a long time to recover, but any help easing his pain would be much appreciated.

He and kitty have my very best thoughts...
Dana (lighting candles for them)
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